These ideas here are taken straight from my experience with have some of my ex-gf. I know most chick think I am bit shy and reserve. I choose the people I talk to and become close to. I am guilty on this. I can’t deny who I am. When I become comfortable with someone and really open up to them, they wont even recognize me. Most of my gf’s find me a different person after they get to know me rather then when I was courting them (hopefully a more attractive person). Maybe because I never really allow other people to get close and be intimate with myself. And when I do allow someone to get close, they often get shocked because I tend to break their set perceptions about me.

Anyways back to the romantic ideas here. Since I was in India on Valentine day and missed it here in Malaysia. I decided to redeem my self with a post-valentine day article. Hey its valentine everyday for me mate…all I need is someone to celebrate valentine’s with.


Idea 1

If your Gf is staying away from you, somewhere like JB for instant and you are here in KL or if your GF is going away traveling or something for a while. You tell her you are really worried about her and you must really express this. Tell her that you have to arrange a bodyguard for her. Play around with her and crack a few jokes on getting a bodyguard for her. And when she least expect it you take out a small teddy bear and give it to her. Tell her that it will be her bodyguard. Make this moment something sweet. Trust me if you do this, she will love you even more.

Idea 2

I’ve used this before successfully. Girls just love to be surprised by their bf’s. The best way to surprised her is to leave her small romantic notes that she will find when least expected. You can leave notes in her mobile phone or capture a short video of you saying something romantic on her mobile. Sooner or later she will find this video and love you for it. Another way is to write romantic notes in the book she is reading. Choose to write these notes at a page she have not read. The best is at the middle of the book because people rarely read to the end. Leave romantic notes in her purse. Leave romantic notes on her organizer or diary. Anywhere she least expect it to be. Don’t over do this, you risk appearing a desperado. Do it sparingly. Its really effective, don’t believe me and try it for yourself. See how she much more excited she gets when she finds one of these notes.


Idea 3

This one is a bit dangerous. You know most guys when they want to get romantic they will send their gf’s roses or flowers at her workplace isn’t it? Well this is too common. It works but doesn’t really give one the impact he is looking for. I came up with this wild idea when one of my female workmate got flowers delivered to her at our office. At that moment when she got it, I was thinking “Get original mate…flowers how boring! If it was me, I’ll get a huge big card draw out 'I love You Always - Jag' inside a big red heart with a small cartoon figure of me and my gf (Im not talking about the big greeting cards, Iam talking about Hand drawing the card) and mail to her working place so she receive it in the middle of a busy day” Wow, just imagine getting that at your workplace. Not that’s what I call romance…too bad I don’t have the guts to do it. Well got to wait for the next gf to try this one out.

Idea 4

This is my favorite. Be attentive to your gf. Remember what she likes and loves. Notice what she often orders in the mamak stall. Notice her for haven sake! If you have spend more then a week with a girl you like and don’t know what she likes, You are a nut! What you can do is to ask her friends (a little dangerous) or her family (preferably her mom, if you dare) or play “What I missed most from my childhood game”.

In this game both of you take turn telling each other what you really missed most from your childhood. Note down everything she likes or misses. One thing I need to clarify since Im speaking to men here. If she says she misses having ice-cream while ridding a swing, then don’t forget to ask her what is the flavour! Get the details. Remember the details. Its only special to her if its chocolate and not vanilla. Get it?

There was once, when I, my gf (name not disclosed for my protection, If she finds out I wrote about our relationship on this blog she will kill me! I don’t want to die just yet. I still have a couple more gf’s to experience before I get married… :P) and her friend were shopping in brickfield for depawali clothes. We passed by an Indian sweet shop. She asked for a certain sweet but they didn’t have it in the shop. When I asked her what kind of sweet it was, I notice she got really excited explaining the sweet to me. So what did I do? I remembered the name of that particular sweet (I cant remember what is the name of the sweet now since that was like ages ago.) Almost a month went by then one day while we were having lunch at “Nirvana’s” in bangsar with her sisters, I excused my self and went to a North Indian restaurant nearby and asked for that particular sweet. They had it, I bought it and by the time I got back to the table, she was almost finishing her lunch. I gave her the sweet and she just exploded with joy. The experience for her was awesome because at first she was dumbfounded as how I knew she like that particular sweet and when I explain to her how. She was surprise that I even remember after 1 month a conversation that she had forgotten. She loved me for it until the day I dumped her. (Hey shit happens..) nothing personal.

So listen up guys. Notice your gf. Period! Remember the details and do stuff like this. She will love you for it. Especially Punjabi girls, since most of them have a false conception that Punjabi guys aren’t romantic. Pull one of these on punjaban and she will melt in your hands.

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